Do the “little things” every day.

• Make the bed, Do the dishes, Put your clothes in the hamper, Close the toilet seat, Practice “No Trace” driving (i.e. leave her car the way you found it), Feed the pets, Answer the phone

Call her during the day, each day, for no reason at all.

• Nothing brings a smile to a wife quite like a husband calling to say, “Hello.” No agenda, no errands to punt back to her, just a quick “You matter to me.”

Kiss her goodbye.

• No matter how late you are or how vital that meeting is, it’s never more important than a sweet and simple reminder that your sweetheart is still No. 1 in your life.

Tell her you love her.

• How long does it take? Three seconds. Try it. The words and the benefits will last a lifetime.

Impact wishes you and your family a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

1. Say “Thank you” or “You are an amazing spouse.” Everyone likes to feel appreciated and loved.  Thank your spouse for the little things that they do that may go unnoticed.  Let them know that you did, in fact, notice.  Or just simply say, “You are amazing and I am so honored to share my life with you.”

2. Spend some spontaneous time together during a weekday. It is so easy to get wrapped up in the everyday things of life and just go through the motions.  Let your spouse know that they are not just part of the weekday routine.  Take an hour to have lunch with your spouse during the week.  Or just send a text or make a quick call to let them know you are thinking about them.  A little extra effort will go a long way.

3. Ask about their day. Everyone wants to feel important.  At the end of a long day, you may not feel like listening to one more issue, situation, or recap; however, take a few minutes to ask your spouse about their day and really listen—make eye contact and respond.  No need to problem-solve, just let them know that you care about how they are doing.

4. Kiss your spouse. Physical affection is an important way to show your spouse that you love them, especially on a day they may not feel particularly attractive or lovable.  Take a spontaneous moment to show them that they are still the one you love.

5. Pray for them. Pray for your spouse.  Pray for their protection, their needs, their concerns, and anything that you know is important to them.  Also pray for your marriage, your children, your life together, and that God remains (or becomes) the center of it.

6. Encourage dream-chasing. Throughout our lives, we continue to have new dreams and also have some old ones that have yet to be fulfilled.  Encourage your spouse to never lose that child-like gift of dreaming about the future–adventures, hobbies, travel.  You will benefit as well because life will never be boring!

Try these six things for one week and let me know if you see changes in your marriage. I’d love to hear from you!

http://www.markmerrill.com/2011/11/28/6-ways-to-boost-your-marriage-in-60-seconds

Join us for breakfast next week with Jim Hessler deliver his plan for turning managers into leaders — and leaders into being follower-worthy!

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After 22 years of marriage, I’ve learned a few things.  I’ve learned that these 5 C’s are important to have a healthy marriage. Now, I can’t tell you I do all of these things well, but I can tell you that I work hard at them.

1. Combine. When a man and woman get married, the “two become one flesh.” There is something magical, mystical and beyond our comprehension when a couple enters the marital covenant.  My blog, Are You and Your Spouse on the Same Team?, may be of some help as you understand how to practically work together in all areas of life.

2. Commit. A husband and wife must commit to: make their marriage a top priority; to be married for life; never to use the “D” word; to be truthful in everything.  These 11 Things a Husband and Wife Must Agree On will help you meet your commitment.

3. Confess. You’re never more right than when you admit you’re wrong.  If you’ve wronged your spouse, be quick to confess it and seek forgiveness. Here’s how to make A True Apology and how to Give Forgiveness as well.

4. Change. Confessing you’re wrong about something and asking for forgiveness isn’t enough.  If you wrong your spouse over and over again relating to the same thing, your spouse may question your sincerity and motives.  Change must accompany confession.  Does that mean you’ll never do the same thing again?  No. It just means that you are strongly striving to turn in a new direction.

5. Choose. Love is a decision.  So choose to love your spouse no matter what. Love your unlovable spouse. Love is unconditional.

Tuesday, November 8 at 6:30pm

Come enjoy a gourmet seven-course meal

Entertainment by The Three Wise Men

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Menu

~ Hors D’oeuvre ~

Belgium Endive with Herbed Creamed Cheese and Salmon Rosette, Capers and Baby Dill

Button Mushrooms Stuffed with Olive Tapenade

~ Appetizer ~

Heirloom Tomato with Buffalo Mozzarella Cheese, Fresh Basil Chiffonade, Olive Oil, Balsamic Vinegar

~ Soup ~

Mediterranean Greek lemon with Chicken

~ Salad ~

Antipasto with Artisan Bread

~ Entree ~

Grilled Fresh Swordfish with White Wine Sauce

Grilled Filet Mignon with Demi Glaze

Sugar Snap Pea Risotto

Grilled Asparagus with Roma Tomato Harness

~ Dessert ~

Fresh Bartlett Pear Poached in Sherry and Spanish Saffron, Coated in Ganache and Sliced Almonds with Edible Orchid

~ Coffee ~

Full Body Artisan Coffee (Italian Style) served with House Made Truffles

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Eric is the father of three boys, the husband of one beautiful wife, and a serial entrepreneur who has experienced some of the best and worst that life has to offer. Eric has published two books, worked as a consultant to Fortune 100 clients, and started multiple software, publishing and internet ventures, raising almost $7M in venture capital.

Eric is currently the CEO of Interactive Performance Solutions, a software startup he co-founded in 2010.

He will share:

· How eight years of dating has made him a better father.

· How tapping into unexplored talents and gifts has made him a better husband.

· How living in the middle circle has made him a more rounded businessman.

· How giving up on your dreams can expand your horizons.   And…

· How making friends with a sociopath is harder than you think – but worth it!

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